Iyanla: tell truth about yourself to yourself. Look at what you do and why you do it.
If you don't tell the truth about yourself to yourself. If you don't, others will tell you and you'll hear it as criticsm.
When you tell truth about yourself to yourself, you can become aware of your issues, good and bad, that drive you.
If you don't tell truth about yourself to yourself, you will remain victim of the world and be powerless.
Lyanla Vansant wearing killer heels and elegant dress with red sweater - telling us to connect with others by looking at person in the eye.
To take truth in can feel as uncomfortable as intestinal gas - Iyanla Vanzant. But you got to do it!
There's a bit of gospel singer in Iyanla Vanzant - strutting across stage and using singsongy voice.
We will make mistakes about what we perceive as truth. And we have to admit when wrong.
How to tell husband when you're wrong: put hand on heart, look at him in eye, say "Oh sweetie. I just love it when you're right."
Say truth to someone else in way you would want to hear it.
Need to be still and allow the truth to come forward in your mind.
When we embrace the truth, welcome it, we live our lives as golden.
Jessica Holmes Canadian comic make on stage. Telling us truth about her chin hairs.
Jessica Holmes; laughing about risks we must take. When buying condoms, men should ask for fitting room.
Bishop T D Jakes on stage -big man in light grey suit and natty pink shirt.
Bishop Jakes: things are never going to go the way they're supposed to. Its when go wrong that you learn most.
Bishop Jakes; ability to manage chaos and crisis determines how far you will go in life. Claps abound in audience.
Growth moments are in the resistance. When things are hard, that's when you're going forward.
Happily ever after doesn't always come. But you cannot live life from place of bitterness.
You can't go forward when looking back. Whatever happened in the past is gone.
Your promise is never in what you lost, its in what you have - Bishop Jakes.
Bishop Jakes: plan for conflict when everybody is happy. Have to have system in mind for how to manage when things go wrong.
Have to know how to manage conflict without taking situation personally. Otherwise, you lose opportuntity to stretch as a person.
Bishop Jakes telling audience that today is opportunity to enlarge ourselves. Makes me want a donut.
Bishop Jakes walking like a chicken. His point? Chickens can't fly because they eat the worst stuff in the world: sticks, stones,feces.
We are like chickens if we eat stuff from the past, if we take in what we should excrete.
Now he is telling us that eagles make love in the air. we should live to fly!
Life is not a chicken coop. Its an opportunity to spread your wings and soar like the eagle you are!
Jessica Holmes back: shout out to her husband. About to give away a 1000 gift certificate to Judith Charles.
Jessica Holmes funny question: do you think global warming is affecting the group Earth, Wind and Fire??
Tony Robbins, the guru of self- empowerment and peak performance about to make appearance.
Tony Robbins hyping up the audience with thumping music and manic clapping.
Tony Robbins reminds me Herman on the old tv show, The Munsters.
Tony Robbins promising he will help us transform. Looks like a hulky football player who is trying to be sensitive.
Tony Robbins extolling the virtue of women. Shrewd when the audience is mostly female.
Tony Robbins: telling us he grew up in stressed environment, financially and emotionally.
Tony Robbins: destiny is not genetics, it's decisions.
Laugh from Tony Robbins: I'm 6'7" and I'm about personal growth. Ha ha
Tont Robbins: love is oxygen of the soul.
Tony Robbins: we all make excuses for why we can't get what we want. But Oprah was abused and she managed to do quite well.
Says Loreena Bobbit, who loped off her husband's penis, is responsible for lot of men sleeping on their stomach - Tony Robbins.
Asking what we say when we fail. Always about resources you don't have - money, education, time.
Tony Robbins: working with 50 million people, he sees patterns. Failure not about lack of resources, its about lack of resourcefulness.
People who are most successful found the resources they needed.
Tony Robbins: a breakthrough is a moment when everything changes -